I'm going to send this to all my first time mommy friends. Ha-ha-ha. Seriously, I couldn't nor wouldn't want 20 kids, and I'm not sure how the Duggar kids have any sense of self... but it seems to work for them. Congratulations Michelle Duggar (if you aren't familair with the Duggars, they have their own reality show on TLC about their ever growing huge family) on baby number 20!